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The Man I Love
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The Man I Love

1997-12-05 · 87 min · ★ 6.3

Drama · Comedy

This is a combination coming out and first love story. The swimmer and diver Lucard is interested in attractive Martin. The film follows the characters' coming out with all its difficulties, the bitter-sweet pleasures of first love and the dreadful moment when one comes down to reality and realizes that one's beloved friend has a hard way to go yet. The positive message the film tries to transmit is the somewhat common motto "Live each day of your life as if it were your last."

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Directors
Stéphane Giusti
Production companies
Ellipsanime Productions, La Sept-Arte, Onya Film Production
Countries
France
Status
Released

Top Cast

Jean-Michel PortalJean-Michel PortalLucas
Marcial Di Fonzo BoMarcial Di Fonzo BoMartin
Mathilde SeignerMathilde SeignerLise
Vittoria ScognamiglioVittoria ScognamiglioRose
Jacques HansenJacques HansenPère de Lucas
Stéphane LévêqueMathieu
Karim LounisPablo
Bernard NissileBernard NissileMillau
Bruno BonomoPrêtre
Stéphane GiustiJérôme
Benjamin SanchiarelliEnfant aux fleurs
Serguei TourountsevDoublure plongeon
Nedjib DjebarriEnfant piscine 1
Louis Philippe LopezEnfant piscine 2
Elisabeth GiustiInfirmière Martin 1
Véronique AudeInfirmière Martin 2
Natasha SolignacMe Raspail
Jean-Charles FontiVoleur 1
Ali HadsjVoleur 2

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