

The Man You Had in Mind
2006-06-10 · 95 min · ★ 2.3
The Man You Had in Mind explores the intimate lives of five Oregon gay male couples; the forces that bring them together, the journeys they face, and the culture in which they survive and thrive.
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- James Tuchschmidt
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