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Choose Me

1984-08-29 · 106 min · ★ 6.1

Romance · Comedy · Drama

Several lost-soul night-owls, including a nightclub owner, a talk radio relationship counselor, and an itinerant stranger have encounters that expose their contradictions and anxieties about love and acceptance.

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Directors
Alan Rudolph
Production companies
Island Alive
Countries
United States of America
Status
Released
Budget
USD 835,000
Revenue
USD 2,000,000

Top Cast

Geneviève BujoldGeneviève BujoldNancy
Keith CarradineKeith CarradineMickey
Lesley Ann WarrenLesley Ann WarrenEve
Patrick BauchauPatrick BauchauZack Antoine
Rae Dawn ChongRae Dawn ChongPearl Antoine
John LarroquetteJohn LarroquetteBilly Ace
Edward RuschaEdward RuschaRalph Chomsky
Gailard SartainGailard SartainMueller
Robert GouldRobert GouldLou
John ConsidineJohn ConsidineDr. Ernest Greene
Jodi BussBabs
Sandra WillIda
Mike KaplanHarve
Russell ParrBradshaw
Teresa VelardeStudio Secretary
Henry G. SandersHenry G. SandersHospital Administrator
Margery BondCousin
Debra DusayNurse La Mer
Minnie Summers LindseyWoman on Bus
Richard MarionGida

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