

Giving It Up
1999-03-16 · 90 min · ★ 4.2
A womanizing New York adman attempts to identify the causes of, and find a remedy for, his so-called addiction to sex, in order to win the love of a woman he respects.
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- Directors
- Christopher Kublan
- Production companies
- Bigel / Mailer Films
- Countries
- United States of America
- Status
- Released
Top Cast
Mark FeuersteinRalph Gagante
Amy RedfordElizabeth Brenner
Dabney ColemanJohnathan Gallant
Ben WeberPeter McGrath
James TobackDr. Hubbins
Ali LarterAmber
James LesureKevin
Callie ThorneRex
Bill DawesPick-Up Man
Jack MerrillJoseph
Steven OggAndre the Fashion Photographer
John DomanRalph Gigante Sr.Title information and images are supplied by TMDb. Explore our discovery guide for advice on comparing metadata and legal viewing options.
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