

Things We Dare Not Do
2020-04-30 · 75 min · ★ 4.4
In the small Mexican coastal village of El Roblito, 16-year-old Ñoño lives what seems to be an idyllic existence with his loving family. But he holds a secret. Defying gender norms, Ñoño works up the courage to tell his family he wants to live his life as a woman, a fraught decision in a country shrouded in machismo and transphobia.
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- Bruno Santamaría Razo
- Production companies
- Ojo de Vaca, Fondo para la Producción Cinematográfica de Calidad, Instituto Mexicano de Cinematografía
- Countries
- Mexico
- Status
- Released
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