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My So-Called Selfish Life
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My So-Called Selfish Life

2021-09-30 · 78 min · ★ 7.3

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Motherhood: a subject so deeply ingrained in our society, we take it for granted as part of the natural order. It's assumed all women want children, that motherhood is not only a biological imperative but the defining measure of womanhood. Titled after one of the myths it challenges, this film draws upon a heady mix of culture, science, and history–revealing the rich and diverse lives of people who said no to children, and the forces that have marginalized them in society.

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Directors
Therese Shechter
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Trixie Films
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United States of America
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