

Relax... It's Just Sex
1998-06-28 · 110 min · ★ 5.9
A tight-knit group of thirty-somethings -- gay, lesbian and straight -- struggle to live, love and stay friends in modern-day Los Angeles as circumstances conspire to tear them apart.
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- Directors
- P.J. Castellaneta
- Production companies
- Sneak Preview Entertainment
- Countries
- United States of America
- Status
- Released
Top Cast
Mitchell AndersonVincey
Terrence 'T.C.' CarsonBuzz
Seymour CasselEmile
Lori PettyRobin
Serena Scott ThomasMegan
Jennifer TillyTara
Susan TyrrellAlicia
Cynda WilliamsSarina
Paul WinfieldAuntie Mahalia
Billy WirthJared
Eddie GarciaJavi
Tim PerezGus
Chris ClevelandDiego
Tom SchultzBasher / Victim
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